Misplaced Compassions And How They Harm Us

Why

Because we've been indoctrinated to think we must have compassion for everyone even for people who do us wrong

We've been convinced that people even in their wrong doings still deserve some kind of "compassion"

But

Do they....

That type of thinking has tied so many souls to so many unnecessary burdens - for a life time

TRAPPING them

Sadly

Deferring their happiness by the burdens presented to them of predators

Can we ever find peace in our lives thinking this way or are we just punishing ourselves because we are indoctrinated to "forgive" "forget" and we ignore the intent behind what people do

Within any act of bad intent nothing that comes from it is innocent

Intent matters

Intent can either FREE US or TRAP US - it's our choice

It's how we are choosing to think

If we choose to trap ourselves to predators - we are rewarding them and punishing ourselves and the predator gets everything they want from us - don't they.....they win - we lose - and we won't readily see our loses - that realization comes much later in our lives [ we see it in retrospect ]

I think it's probably best that we don't trap ourselves to predators and that we learn to separate ourselves completely from these kind of people and anything they are apart of - no matter what it is - the innergy behind the intent MATTERS

I think compassion for predators steals a part of us that we can never get back [TIME]

It takes away our energy that should be kept sacred for all the positive people in our lives who do right by us - who have GOOD INTENT with us

I do think it takes a whole lot of fortitude inside ourselves to overcome and rethink the indoctrination of 'the right thing" and what that means

And how is it that in some cases we don't think about "the right thing" being done for us for ourselves

What if the "right thing" wasn't done to us first - do we still owe the predator ....what does the predator owe us/you in their "wrong doing".....

Perspective and Indoctrination run a tight race

But the photo finish between the two should be based on loving ourselves first

YOU/WE come first - in a sensible way

Because predators are takers for as long as we allow them to

They really have no power - they're doing what we allow

Predators are very good at manipulating emotions - compassion is a big one - they want us to feel sorry for them for something they actually did - their BAD INTENT gets ignored

I think our compassions should be completely reserved for only the do gooders in our lives - match good innergy with good innergy

I think we have to learn [to be brave] to just walk away from certain situations the second we recognize that we are being taken advantage of

Ask yourself - Has my compassion for someone brought me peace or has it been my burden....

Ask yourself - Am I getting any compassion in return....

Do I feel completely weighed down mentally by my sacrifices and not respected....

What sense does it really make for us to keep giving to someone when we know the takers don't care about us -

None of us are entitled to anything just because we're here

That's indoctrination speaking

Compassion is not suppose to hurt us but when it does we know it's been misplaced

If the answer to the questions above is your burden - well that's the sign to reevaluate something you're doing and see that you're probably being used by a predator for your compassion - [ and your compassion for them has been misplaced ]

This is also the point to see that the compassion you've been giving away to the predators has taken away from your happy life and from the lives of those around you who really love you

Compassion doesn't come abundant within us you know - it takes a lot of INNERGY to stir it up -

it can wear us down mentally giving it away to the wrong people - and make us impatient with the ones we want to love

But there's GOOD NEWS

We have choices

We CAN reel back our compassions at any given time when we realize our kindness and compassion have been taken advantage of

And it doesn't matter how long our compassions have been misplaced - there is no rule book of life that says we have to keep suffering being committed to wrong doers ....we can let go

If we have a door to leave we should be walking through it

Because

A new life is awaiting YOU and US

We can stop punishing ourselves

And when we do that - it is the exact moment where we FREE ourselves and completely see the predators for whom they are - then the burdens of the them fade into the ether

And believe it or not - the predators are actually always nervous about the day that we will see them for whom they are

That's why they keep preying to get as much as they can while they can

But

When we finally let go the predator lets go too .....they've only held on because we've allowed it

And then we get our lives back

And all that misplaced compassion gets taken back - restored - and given to those who truly CARE about us

Cheers to a NEW LIFE and to the people in it who deserve the MOST

LOVE returned TENFOLD